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What works, and what to watch for

Do

  • Be honest in your profile. Recent photos, your real height, job and history. The right person should meet the real you.
  • Talk to verified profiles. Look for the verified badge: their ID and selfie have been checked.
  • Video call before you meet. Set up a video call between the two of you before meeting in person: seeing someone live is the simplest check there is.
  • Meet in public, and involve family. First meetings somewhere open; families when it gets serious.
  • Take your time. A good match will still be there next week.

Don’t

  • Catfish or kittenfish. Fake photos, or “slightly better” ones, start a marriage on a lie.
  • Send money. Ever. Not for an emergency, a visa, customs or an “investment”. Anyone who asks is not your match.
  • Ghost. If it’s not right, say so kindly. A short “I don’t think we’re a match” is better than silence.
  • Breadcrumb. Don’t keep someone hanging with occasional messages if you’re not interested.
  • Rush because you’re pressured. Love bombing and “decide now” are warning signs, not romance.

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